Is life a script? Are we all just parts in a movie or do we have control of our future?
We definitely have control and choice of how we feel. You may disagree, but in any situation you do have control of how you decide to feel, but to start you need to make that a conscious thought!
I believe our life is like a big oak tree, our choices lead us along the branches and each decision effects our path to the final leaf. If you think about it that way there are hundreds of possibilities of where life will take you and every decision plays a part but because your life is a tree some things are ‘planned’ or meant to be.
External factors can effect our growth for better or worse but we still grow. Our experiences mould the person we become.
So next time life becomes difficult try and see how you can grow and learn, it may just be a twist in the plot that leads you on to greater things. Or maybe it really is a tragedy and you need time to grieve accept pain and continue as a changed person on your journey.
What ever your plot twists, make it a great movie with as many emotions and colours just for you!